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							| Can anyone tell me how to explain the difference between whom and who? I know how to use them but I have no idea how to explain how to use them  . Thanks in advance! Happy Friday for those who are making their way through their Fridays! |  20 Nov 2009      
					
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							| Hi!    "Whom" is an object and "who" is a subject:    Whom did you see? = You saw whom? -- I saw Peter (Peter=object)  Who is Peter? = here there �s no inversion as "who" is the subject    Hope this helps :=)    Regards from Spain,  Olga   |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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							| Hello Boombox5, I also want to give a simple explanation about "WHO" and "WHOM". Who is a subject pronoun, in the same way as  �he / she / they �. Who is use for PERSON Example:Who did you see?
 Whom is an object pronoun, in the same way as  �him / her / them �.  �Whom � is the object of a verb. Example: Whom did you see?   (Whom is very formal and not often used in spoken English.) |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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							| wow, thanks guys, makes sense now although I am still trying to wrap my head around what is a subject and object  whom is especially difficult for me cause i rarely ever use it. i wrote a formal email this morning and started it with, to whom it may concern but I think this is really the only time i ever use  �whom �.   |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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							| I predict that in 20 years time, whom will have ceased to exist. Language is alive and changing continually; modern speakers hardly ever use whom and even in writing, not using whom has become accepted (with the possible exclusion of essays and formal tests). |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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							| & PhilipR isn �t the only one who thinks so. Most of the contemporary writers on English linguistics (e.g. Swann) believe the same. |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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							| I don �t even teach "whom" anymore.  I just let my students know they may hear it sometimes, but who is always acceptable and whom is being "phased out".   Okay, I do tell them that whom is for asking about the object vs who being for the subject.    >Boombox--(in simplest terms) the subject does the action and the object receives the action |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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							| Native speakers rarely use  �whom � any more.  An exception is when you write "To whom it may concern" |  20 Nov 2009     
					
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